by Daniel | Jan 25, 2025 | Blog
So it’s been a journey this process of forgiveness, not easy. But it feels worthwhile… prompted initially among other things; therapy and a spirituality group where I learned that according to God, it is a sin to not forgive. While I’m not a strict...
by Daniel | Dec 14, 2024 | Blog
What was done to us is not our fault, no child is to blame for suffering such evil, despite what our abusers might say. So we are not to blame, a child is the most innocent thing in all the world, and so incredibly dependant upon their caregivers. But as we grow...
by Daniel | Dec 14, 2024 | Blog
Some who have suffered CSA/SRA don’t feel themselves to be a survivor, sometimes because they are barely surviving, because their life is a mess, because they want to self delete, because they can’t bear to go on, or feel overwhelmed with self disgust and...
by Daniel | Dec 14, 2024 | Blog
CSA is the most terrible evil it is possible to suffer. The combination of perceived physical threat, forced and coerced sexual conduct, overwhelming power differentials and the pure innocence of a child marks just how SEVERELY evil such abuse is. If you imagine the...
by Daniel | Dec 14, 2024 | Blog
The sharing of stories here is done so with the aim of inspiring and assisting other survivors. However it can be natural to compare ones own story to another’s, and even to consider that we didn’t have it ‘so bad,’ compared to the others, and...