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We all have a duty to HEAL
What was done to us is not our fault, no child is to blame for suffering such evil, despite what our abusers might say. So we are not to blame, a child is the most innocent thing in all the world, and so incredibly dependant upon their caregivers. But as we grow...
YES you are a SURVIVOR
Some who have suffered CSA/SRA don't feel themselves to be a survivor, sometimes because they are barely surviving, because their life is a mess, because they want to self delete, because they can't bear to go on, or feel overwhelmed with self disgust and shame and so...
We are ALL heroes
CSA is the most terrible evil it is possible to suffer. The combination of perceived physical threat, forced and coerced sexual conduct, overwhelming power differentials and the pure innocence of a child marks just how SEVERELY evil such abuse is. If you imagine the...
All suffering is relative
The sharing of stories here is done so with the aim of inspiring and assisting other survivors. However it can be natural to compare ones own story to another's, and even to consider that we didn't have it 'so bad,' compared to the others, and so we then diminish our...
Welcome to Survivors Story
This is a website and resource for survivors of CSA (Childhood Sexual Abuse) and SRA (Satanic Ritual Abuse), if you would like to see some further support resources please scroll down the HOME page for immediate help and support.... In particular the CSA survivors...
Forgiveness
I've been practising forgiveness, here is what I have learned/ practised so far. 1/ its a choice not a feeling, you choose to forgive, you follow the process and so are eventually are liberated by it. 2/ God commands us to forgive, not forgiving is a 'sin' or missing...
#9 The dam/ the dark moon
WARNING: Upsetting and unsettling content, read at your own risk.Please read #1-8 before reading this. So the other posts, to be honest haven’t felt as if they took courage to post, although admittedly – afterwards I was often paralysed by anxiety… the posting itself...
#8 The threat, the practice of disassociation and how to respond as a support figure
THE THREATLets assume for now, that as my critics may say, that I am doing all of this for attention, that I have made it up, or suffer from a confused or broken mind, that I am in need of medication – or even being locked up… Lets assume that my story is not true and...
#7 Coming out of the closet (not that closet)
(For further context on how I arrived here, please read #1-6 BEFORE reading this post) WARNING: upsetting/disturbing post. Read at your own risk! Well holy moley… Where to start with this one…. I guess I want to pre-frame that for THIS post: ALL is welcome. It...